Children (8–12) with FND

A calm and clear space for older kids living with FND

Welcome

This page is for children ages 8–12 who sometimes experience symptoms that feel confusing, sudden, or hard to explain. Everything here is written in a calm, easy-to-understand, and not scary way. If you’re reading this with a parent or caregiver, that’s great. Learning together helps things feel less overwhelming.

FND happens when the brain and body have trouble sending signals to each other.

Think of it like:

  • A computer with a glitch 
  • A phone with a weak Wi-Fi signal 
  • A message that didn’t load all the way 

Your brain is still smart.  Your body is still strong.  The signals just get mixed up sometimes, and that can cause real symptoms.

Kids ages 8–12 might notice:

  • Weakness or wobbly legs 
  • Shaking or tremors 
  • Trouble speaking for a moment 
  • Non-epileptic seizures 
  • Sudden tiredness 
  • Difficulty thinking clearly 
  • Dizziness or strange body sensations 

These symptoms are real.  You are not imagining them.  And none of this is your fault.

  • Children in this age group benefit from:
  • Clear explanations 
  • Calm sessions 
  • Space to ask questions 
  • Predictable routines 
  • Short, gentle activities 
  • A friendly host who keeps things safe and comfortable 

No one is forced to talk.  You can keep your camera on or off.  You can listen quietly or participate a little, whatever feels okay.

Our support groups for ages 8–12 include:

  1. A calm welcome 
  2. A grounding activity that’s simple and gentle 
  3. A short check-in (talking optional) 
  4. A coping tool or skill for this age group 
  5. A peaceful closing moment 

Groups are:

  • Safe 
  • Friendly 
  • Slow-paced 
  • Not overwhelming 

Kids can bring:

  • A comfort item 
  • A sketchbook 
  • A snack 
  • A quiet fidget 
  • Or just themselves 

We use tools designed specifically for older children. Things that help calm the body, settle the brain, and create a sense of control.

To keep everything consistent and easy to find, all coping activities for this age group are included in their official HHFFND Coping Menu.

Older children may feel scared, confused, embarrassed, or frustrated by symptoms.  Your calm presence makes a huge difference.

Visit the Parents & Caregivers page for:

  • Gentle communication tools 
  • Support groups 
  • Guidance on helping your child feel safe 

If symptoms change suddenly or feel scary, a trusted adult can help you know what to do.

This page links to our Safety, Crisis & Emergency Guidance page, which is written for parents and caregivers and explains how to support children calmly and safely when extra help is needed.

A Steady Place to Learn

Living with FND can mean your body doesn’t always do what you expect. That can be frustrating, but it doesn’t mean anything is wrong with you. You are learning what helps your body feel steadier, and you have support while you do.